How To Define Love

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‘What Can I Expect From This WebSite?‘

‘Is ‘Love’ Working For You?’

‘Is It Really Essential To Actually Define Love?’

‘What This WebSite Does Not Provide For You’
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Love Isn’t Blossoming Like You Know It Should?

If You Keep Doing The Same Things You Always Have
- – - Without Trying A New Approach Toward Loving and Becoming Loved- – -
What Makes You Think Love Will… EVER …Come Your Way?

If Things Haven’t Already Worked
In The Direction You’ve Chosen To Travel…
Why Not At Least INVESTIGATE A New Direction?

After all…
Surely Common Sense Tells You
that if you continue on the same course
you’ll continue to receive the same response.
(The simplified Albert Einstein ‘rule of life’.)

This Site Will Provide You
what you’ll likely determine is a
vastly different approach.
(But – it is right. More importantly – it’s True.)

Whatever it is you do in life…
If you wish to do it well
you must first understand the ins and outs
of that which you wish to accomplish.
You must know what you are dealing with.
To best know it – you must first define it.

The question of How to Define Love is more vital than you might at first suspect. After all, doesn’t every single thing in life at least touch upon one aspect or other of love? Either on the ‘toward’ love equation, or the ‘against’? Without knowing How to Define Love then, how in the world will you ever be able to not only address the multitude of peripherals love touches, but pursue and enhance the core issues which will lead to advancing your ability to enhance the love you are offering… or, place yourself in a position within which you’ll become better able to become loved?

Think about it… regardless of the profession you’ve elected to pursue, isn’t learning the particulars of your chosen profession one of the foremost aspects of learning how to proceed with the best assurance of success? If you really think about it, you’ll admit that same concept is true when learning how to brush your teeth or even put on your clothes. There is a way, a system that is best toward the accomplishment of whatever it is you pursue. Therefore, learning the particulars which most thoroughly define the ‘job description’ or ‘requirements’ of that which you are pursuing is vital for success.

But, how many of us have really thought about such things when pursuing love? Aren’t we suppose to just ‘fall in love’ and live happily ever after? Well friend, I honestly hope you’ve enjoyed such a long term experience in life. Not having had the experiences most people have had… according to divorce rates, break-ups, etc., in my case, ignorance of the particulars of what encompasses love has personally brought forth some very rough emotional times. Unfortunately though, not just for me. My ignorance as well as outright stupidity has over the years caused a number of people to experience emotional and mental pain of which they could have otherwise remained free. Before I learned the ‘Secrets’ this WebSite puts forth… living through the emotional upheaval and and in some cases experiencing ongoing remorse of the nature of having caused and been a part of ‘failed love’ has been a painful aspect of life. Never completely ending. Never completely healing. Obviously then, my ability, even my willingness to strive to more successfully move on in life with the anticipation of achieving a better outcome has often been a difficult, if not a seemingly impossible task.

The concept presented on this Website however,
is not limited to recovering from heartaches of the past!
It’s a concept that will help you
begin to learn how to forestall and even eliminate
the possibility/probability of facing those same relationship heartaches
which might otherwise come forth in your future.
As a bonus: properly laying the past to rest, as well.

Isn’t it time to look at love from a more pro-active position? ‘Falling in love’ is fabulous… to be sure. Staying in love, continuing in love, learning to forgive and move on in deeper love is what we need to spend more time thinking about. Not only thinking, but more importantly… actively understanding and then pursuing a relational experience with the core definition of Love, Itself. Only then will we become better able to embrace the greater heights of love that each of us seeks. Hopefully, you’ll discover things on this and suggested sites which will help you more fully embrace what has universally proven to be the biggest motivating force in all existence: The desire to love and be loved.

By learning the succinct Definition of Love…
You’ll become better prepared
to properly step forth on your quest.
You’ll know the ins and outs of love.
More importantly… what love expects from YOU.
Above all, you’ll have come to personify the definition
and be far, far ahead in your quest
than you might now have found yourself.

By studying the concepts presented on this Site it is almost a certainty you will gain an excellent understanding of How To Define Love. Not the peripherals, but the foundational, empirical definition of love. When you put into practice the understanding gained herein you’ll be well on your way toward experiencing not only how to better love, but you’ll also realize you are becoming better loved, as well. The ‘key’ though, is to first, define love.

It is important, however, to note that while gaining the Prime Definition is vital to your coming success in learning how to better love and become better loved, the Prime Definition only provides you a firm starting point from which you may begin to develop your relational goals.

1) Very little of this Site deals specifically with the ‘How To(s)‘ involved in actually loving. Rather than any ‘How To’ which explains how to actually love another human… or encourage them to love you, the ‘How To(s)‘ presented on this Site are structured to help you clearly and succinctly understand precisely what the all encompassing definition of love is… and ‘How To’ become better able to comprehend in your own heart and mind an enactment of that definition. It is then up to you to choose to endeavor to incorporate that revelation into the foundational character of your life in order to both discover and nurture love’s growth. Without employing the ‘How To(s)‘ relative to understanding and embracing those things which are required by the Definition of Love though, most likely the next five years of your life will produce the same type and level of love you are now trying to enhance. It is terribly important then, to first define love in its most empirical sense. Next, begin employing the use of that empirical definition as you enter this next new phase of your life.

2) As you begin to comprehend the reality of the Prime Definition, you might begin to think in terms of, ‘Oh, this is the same old thing’, or ‘Oh, why bother thinking along these lines’. Friend, rather than once again choosing to avoid giving the Prime Definition its proper due, our hope is you’d determine it might be a good idea to at least give the concept a good, solid chance. Try to look at this new endeavor with the specific intent to discover deeper aspects of love with ‘new eyes‘. A new heart. A new willingness to dig deeper than you might already have. That is, try to see it from a different perspective than that which has been your habit. After all, if you keep thinking the way you always have thought and keep doing the same things you have always done… what makes you think your ability to both love and become better loved will ever change? Will ever become more enhanced? Albert Einstein probably said it best by defining insanity as, “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

3) While it is vital we learn the practical ‘How To(s)‘ of one on one nurturing in order to better enjoin the personal endearments we seek, I encourage you to first focus on the ‘technical’ aspects of the reality of the Prime Definition. Friend, a) comprehending and then b) internalizing those technical aspects are your most important quests. Pay special attention to the idea that you might be tempted to believe the Foundational Definition described herein is ‘way off base’ relative to developing a deeper understanding of the basics of love. As you proceed in your comprehension though, you’ll discover that when this supreme Definition of Love is embraced as reality and then applied to your life… you’ll then begin to clearly recognize that this initial learning of the ‘technical’ Definition of Love takes you much further toward capturing love than the direction you have already visited. This Prime, Empirical Definition of which we speak identifies Love, Itself. Embracing that Empirical Definition will provide you the ability to more succinctly enjoin love in a manner through which you will become far better able to enhance your love experiences for the rest of your life.

4)
Regarding Love
Do we strive to discover the ‘Clinical’ or ‘Technical’ first?
Or, do we strive to first know the Emotional or Experiential?
Recognize that if you went to a physician for an operation
or an auto mechanic to have your vehicle repaired,
if he or she began the corrective or proactive procedure
without first having a true ‘clinical’ or ‘technical’ understanding…
how likely is it he or she would accomplish their quest
in the most favorable manner?
That manner bringing you the most favorable long term results?
That same concept, of course, is true in not only any trade or vocation,
but in any endeavor you choose to accomplish.
So too
in your attempt to accomplish your quest to learn to better love and be loved.
Therefore, while the ‘How To(s)‘ of one on one are vital,
this Site is structured to assist you in first identifying
and then embracing
the ‘clinical’ and/or ‘technical’ ‘Definition’ realities that make up Love, Itself…
Really now…
how will it be possible to be wholly successful in accomplishing your
relational one on one ‘How To(s)‘
without first identifying and embracing the reality of what
Love, Itself… actually consists?
Of how it is… actually defined?

5) This Site, then, principally deals with the presentation of the ‘clinical’ or the ‘technical’ aspects of love in the form of identifying the Prime Definition. And, the ‘How To(s)‘ relative to learning how to progressively embrace that definition. When you deeply grasp and internalize the reality of that definition and only afterward begin to progressively implement your ‘How To(s)‘ relative to further developing your personal ‘love experiences’ according to a solid understanding of that basis… your then developing relational ‘How To(s)‘ will begin from a threshold far higher and better equipped than the position in life you now maintain. Thus, gaining you a greater ability to better love and be loved.

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