Is Forgiveness Intrinsic To Love?
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The 3 ‘Secret’ Ingredients of Love is foremost structured toward discovering the empirical definition of love. Next, providing encouragement to embrace that definition and pursue its employment in your life.
Introduction
to the book entitled…
The 3 Secret Ingredients of Love
Very much unlike most books of this nature,The 3 ‘Secret’ Ingredients of Love does not provide guides relative to the ‘how to’ or ‘what to do’ in order to provide or receive a higher experience of love. Rather, this writing is foremost structured to identify the empirical definition of love. Then, to offer information and considerations which you might elect to personally employ as guidance toward understanding the only logical, thus reasonable manner in which to proceed in life is to increasingly embrace within your own mental and emotional nucleus, the wholeness of that empirical definition. I think you’ll come to agree that only after so doing will you begin to develop an increasingly more firm foundation from which to spring forth toward the arrive of your goal of becoming better able to love more dearly; as well as becoming more dearly loved.
Really now, doesn’t it make sense that if you don’t comprehend an accurate definition of the very essence of love and then nurture that insight to the point it becomes a part of your internal being… how in the world can anyone logically, or even reasonably expect to effectively pursue the enhancement of it?
Love and Becoming Loved are Far More Beautiful
Why is it that as a rule most of us find it difficult to discover the higher essence of love and make it an ongoing, ever enhanced aspect of our lives? Even after discovering love in the first place, why is it that as time passes many people realize those initial love sensations seem to at least somewhat diminish? Moreover, why is it that although we might elect to once again strive toward re-establishing the same mental framework we first employed, the same heart we initially embraced, that initial ‘essence of love’ we first enjoyed seems to have become less gripping, less wholly embracing than it once was?
After we’ve embraced the initial wonder of love – what do we do or say; how do we act in order to maintain and even escalate it? Are there specific ‘components’ of love we must learn and then consciously nurture? If so, what are these components? As the title indicates, there surely are individual components which make up and then allow the deeper receipt of our love experience.
If there are specific components, why aren’t they well known, completely understood and well practiced? Why it is they seem such a ‘Secret’? Why are they so secret we have to diligently search for them? Well friend, they are indeed ‘Secret’ because nearly each and every one of us have unconsciously made them that way. And with the building blocks of generation after generation constantly keeping these ‘keys’ of love at bay… it’s little wonder they’ve become ‘Secret’. Typically, when people begin to recognize they haven’t the ‘tools’ to effectively nurture love – most of us allow ‘life to get in the way of living’ to the point we lose sight of the foundational realities of love which initially cause such a human arousal.
Soon though, you’ll discover that not one single one of the principle ‘3 Secret Ingredients of Love’ are really secret, at all. On the contrary! Each one is now and has been throughout our lives most obvious to anyone who cares to deeply… think …about the issues of love they face. Unfortunately though, most of us simply don’t endeavor to think that deeply. (The quiz in the next chapter will prove that point.)
The identity of each of the ‘3 Secrets’ so much surrounds us it’s kind of like being unable to ‘see the forest because the trees are in the way’. You’ll discover you already know each of these ‘Secrets’. Before that realization comes forth though, the first difficulty most of us have to overcome is becoming willing to accept the fact that the realities of love are wholly and completely defined by God in His Holy Word; the Bible. Once you become willing to accept that… as well as acknowledge God just might be able to offer you something you don’t know on the subject… then you’ll be well on your way toward learning a great deal more about Love, Itself.
While most of us recognize we must nurture ‘love’ in order to better embrace it, often, many of us don’t really know how to identify the specifics of what we need to nurture. Nor even know how to nurture it when we find it. SUGGESTION: In order to embrace the heights of love we must first become more willing to give God a chance at helping us more fully identify and then embrace the ‘stepping stones’ leading to the type of love that in fact becomes ever escalating; ever broadening; ever enhancing. (The ‘stepping stones’ are the ’3 Secrets’)
These teachings will bring to light things about Christianity you may not have considered before. Keep in mind that if you see value herein, that by itself should give you reasons to believe you might do well to further investigate what the Bible, itself, has to say on the subject of love. Who knows but as you progress and begin to see each of these ‘3 Secrets’ in a progressively better light… that will prompt greater recognition toward God, Jesus and the Bible.
Throughout, it will likely be that you will grow to ever more firmly embrace the reality that those ‘3 Secrets’ are indeed integral; even intrinsic to your receipt of the higher echelons of love. It’s almost a sure bet that you’ll then begin to more effectively seek out and personally engage their use. As a result, you will with certainty be able to see and almost certainly grasp the ever increasing opportunities available to you through which you will more quickly attain your personal enjoyment of the higher degrees of peace, joy, love and happiness.
Now then, for the next several paragraphs, let’s speak in terms of only the ‘Principle’ Secret, not the Three together. When this Primary ‘Secret’ is shortly identified, I’m sure you’ll agree that along with most of us you clearly realize it is something which you’ve known all along. You’ve known it to even be ‘key’ in the process of developing any significant advancement toward further prompting your arrival toward the increasingly more profound heights of love you seek. Whether that expression of love be friend to friend, spouse to spouse, father and mother to child or child to parent. Or even human toward God. (Certainly, this also includes the love of God toward humans.) It has been unusually, even acutely rare to find a person who doesn’t wholly agree that this ‘Secret’ surely is absolutely integral, e.g. acutely intrinsic to the development of any and every relationship on whatever plane of life we are endeavoring to further advance.
Like the ‘forest because of the trees’ though, the solution which leads toward the enhancement of our love experiences is so obvious that most of us don’t readily see it. And unfortunately, when seen, most of us don’t think along those lines long enough to really come to grips with it’s necessity. Therefore, as a rule we don’t habitually employ its use. Worse… far worse… by not identifying nor employing within our internal ‘habit of life’ the use of this ‘Secret Ingredient’, we continue to make even more pronounced in our lives, this ‘Secret’. Sadly then, but understandably, by even unwittingly taking the position of keeping this ‘Secret’ at arms length… we ALWAYS lessen our ability to enhance the opportunities of love which are otherwise before us.
Within this writing you’ll learn of the Biblical position regarding this Primary ‘Secret’. You’ll also learn of the neurological science behind the reality of this ‘Secret’. Through the two, as your reading progresses you will almost inevitably come to accept the reality that it is indeed our lack of employing this ‘Secret’ that stifles our endeavors to better love and be loved at the heights we innately comprehend are otherwise available to us. We know those heights are there, but for most of us our embrace of those greater heights seem to always remain more hopes and dreams than reality. And that, friend, is largely due to our lack of both understanding and then employing the necessities required for their further acquisition. That, of course, brings us back to the ‘3 Secret Ingredients’ and the need for our better comprehension of them, and then, our diligent pursuit.
As noted above, there is one significant discovery integral to your ability to grasp and then embrace these ‘3 Secrets’ that you might initially contend with. Specifically, your willingness to both recognize and then adhere to that which is taught about love… in the Holy Bible. But if your ability to gain a more pronounced experience of love is worth it, and if your character embraces the honest desire to learn those things which will help you learn to better love and become loved – you’d be wise to lay your historic views of the Bible or God aside in favor of investigating just what the Bible has to say. After all, how is your love life? How have things worked thus far? Couldn’t your experience of love be better?
Friend, within the chapters of this book you will discover by means of both the Bible and ‘Brain Science’, this ‘Secret Ingredient’ is the God given ‘key’ to furthering your desire to enhance your own love experiences. The question is, will you grow to accept the reality that your personal acceptance and then implementation of relative aspects of God’s Word is your ‘key’? More of a question though, is will you then actually do what must be done according to Biblical teachings in order to more completely embrace the path which will surely lead you toward the greater heights of love you seek?
Now, let’s identify “The 3 Secret Ingredients”…
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